Magnanimity
138. A man of noble character (Junzi) is virtuous and he delights in others who are virtuous. He is competent and he delights in others who are competent. Although he appreciates the practice of good deeds, he will never force others to do so. He despises deviant individuals but he will not detest them as if they were his enemies. He will neither presume the conduct of others to be indecent, nor suspect others to be untrustworthy. He does not take pleasure in others’ mistakes but assists others in accomplishing acts of kindness.
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139. Thus it is said: “Those who remember the contributions of others and forgive their mistakes can become good leaders.” To a man of great virtues, do not investigate the small matters concerning his personal life. To a man of great reputation, do not criticize his minor faults. From ancient times until today, there has never been a person whose moral conduct is perfect.
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140. Emperor Gaozu of the Han dynasty was a civilian from a region east of Xiaoshan. When he decided to raise an army, magnificent men from all parts of the kingdom immediately joined him, while able and virtuous men came to serve him. Under his leadership, no one could stop him from winning the throne because the laws and regulations he created were brief and clear, and he was a man of great tolerance who could accept all competent people to serve under him.
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